Why don't we attribute our success to external variables?


Yes, we humans are so self centered, that we don't want others to look at our failures. Even if someone finds about our failures; we tend to attribute it to external variables. All we need is name, fame and money! We want others to recognize us for our so called achivements, and not for the failures we have gone through (and nobody does recognize you, if you have failed).

Consider the opposite scenario: Suppose we have done an achivement,dedication we show to our
work(i believe), and everyones gaze will be at us. And as usuall we forget every single thing and persons who have helped us to show dedication to our work, even if it's not by intentional. We pat our back and say loudly-”Yes, it was all my hard work that has made me like this now”.

Some believe, it is right to praise ourselves for the work 'we' have done.And some don't agree with this. But,let us think for a while, what made us to work to our achivement and failure? It is again, all external variables!

Let me brief you:
I am up to work for the dream i have. Some of us critisize; and some others, help us achive our dream. Now again; It is all up to me to break through the critisize, and take the help given to me to achive my goal.

There are always external variables behing our successes and failures. Yet again, it is we, who are responsible for the failure and success of our's despite the variables.

But, “People credit themselves for their success; but attribute their failure to external variables”. It is all situations, environment we are in, and many other factors make us look like as described in the above sentence. We people are malleable!

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