Why don't we attribute our success to external variables?
Yes, we humans are so self centered,
that we don't want others to look at our failures. Even if someone
finds about our failures; we tend to attribute it to external
variables. All we need is name, fame and money! We want others to
recognize us for our so called achivements, and not for the failures
we have gone through (and nobody does recognize you, if you have
failed).
Consider the opposite scenario: Suppose
we have done an achivement,dedication we show to our
work(i believe), and everyones gaze
will be at us. And as usuall we forget every single thing and persons
who have helped us to show dedication to our work, even if it's not
by intentional. We pat our back and say loudly-”Yes, it was all my
hard work that has made me like this now”.
Some believe, it is right to praise
ourselves for the work 'we' have done.And some don't agree with this.
But,let us think for a while, what made us to work to our achivement
and failure? It is again, all external variables!
Let me brief you:
I am up to work for the dream i have.
Some of us critisize; and some others, help us achive our dream. Now
again; It is all up to me to break through the critisize, and take
the help given to me to achive my goal.
There are always external variables
behing our successes and failures. Yet again, it is we, who are
responsible for the failure and success of our's despite the
variables.
But, “People credit themselves for
their success; but attribute their failure to external variables”.
It is all situations, environment we are in, and many other factors
make us look like as described in the above sentence. We people are
malleable!
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